How beautiful living an intentional life can be, friend, and this seems an opportune time to think about the intentions we set and hold to in our lives as we approach the ending of one year, and the start of another.

Our lives are full of endings and beginnings, aren’t they?

Both being points in which we can pause to reflect and to set goals and intentions.

There is a difference, I think, between living intentionally versus being goal oriented.

Goal oriented sets you on one path, to accomplish, to reach, to grasp one thing.

A promotion at work, a set amount in your savings account, a number of miles to run by weeks end.

These things, in and of themselves, are not bad. Goals are wonderful things to set, to aim and strive for, and – even better – to accomplish.

What is dangerous is the worth and importance that we can often place on these accomplishments.

Even worse, the failure we can feel when these things don’t come to fruition.

Intentions, instead, provide you forward momentum while also allowing the flexibility and acceptance of other things to come that are unplanned or unexpected.

Those wondrous surprises that you could not, or would not, have planned for yourself.

Living with intention gives your life guiding principles in HOW you want to live in each moment, and HOW you plan to exist within the world and the life you occupy in the present.

There have been many times in life that I have failed to reach a goal that I’ve set for myself, additionally, there have been times I’ve felt a failure as a result of this.

It has only been later, as other things in my life fell into place, that I was able to recognize the benefit of some goals I’d set not working as I’d planned… because, friend, there was something else intended for me.

I’d have suffered much less disappoint if, instead of focusing on the end result, I’d enabled myself to enjoy the journey and take note of the experiences along the way.

Living in the enjoyment of each step taken, versus only the realization of the end of a journey, to me is the epitome of goal setting and intentionally living functioning in tandem.

So, while we strive to go on more adventures, save money, lose weight, be better parents, better spouses, more confident, get a raise, receive a promotion, write a book… whatever that external goal is… let’s also commit to showing up and being present.

Let’s be intentional in all the moments, being sure to focus on who we are and how we’re showing up, from the starting point to the finish line.

And, if we veer off coarse, and miss the mark we’re striving for, let’s be sure that we showed up in a way that we can still allow and permit ourselves to celebrate.

Ultimately, friend, what matters is that each of us can look in the mirror and like who we are. This doesn’t occur because of all the external things we accomplish.

The check marks we cross off, the mile stones we reach, or the finish lines we cross.

These things can provide points of pride, but don’t give self worth. Self worth is cultivated from within.

It’s who we are throughout the journey, and the person we’ll find at the end.

So, set the intention for who you want to be, how you want to show up, as you also determine what goals you want to crush.

But if you don’t, know that you are never a failure if you can look at yourself and be proud of the person you were along the way and all the places you visited both within and outside of yourself.


Your Trusted Friend ❤

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