Chapter Four: After the Almost

This is Mira’s story—part fiction, part reflection, wholly honest.
(Each chapter will end with a note from her writing, signed as your trusted friend.)

🎧 Listen while you read: “Motion Sickness” by Phoebe Bridges
For the ache of almost, the unraveling, and the clarity that comes when you finally stop trying to rewrite the ending.

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Mira’s Story: After the Almost
Not heartbreak, not healing. Just breath. And becoming.

There’s a space that follows disappointment, not heartbreak, but the kind of quiet ache that lingers after something hopeful falls apart. Mira didn’t rush to fill it. Not this time.

Instead, she let it breathe.

She cried that night, yes. But she didn’t spiral. She didn’t blame herself or try to rewrite it. Instead, she tucked herself in with tea and silence and let her heart whisper its grief without rushing toward distraction.

In the days that followed, she went inward, but not in isolation. She said yes to the beach invite with her girlfriends, even though she’d wanted to cancel. She stood barefoot in the surf with a paper cup of wine, watching them laugh in the waves, and felt something in her soften.

The ache hadn’t left. But it had changed texture.

Later, on the beach, someone handed her a hoodie. Her daughter, Pepper, plopped beside her and leaned her head on Mira’s shoulder.

“You okay, Mom?”

Mira nodded. “Yeah. Just… feeling everything.”

Pepper didn’t say anything at first. Then, her voice flat but sure, she said,
“Knock it off, Mom. Eff that guy. He might’ve seemed kinda nice, but if he really saw you? He wouldn’t have flaked, he’d have pulled up with flowers. Instead, he dipped like a bug. A nervous, squishy little bug who couldn’t handle a baddie with a ghyat.”

She paused, then added under her breath,
“Weak-ass energy.”

Then she got quiet. Her voice softened, almost unsure.
“You don’t deserve halfway, Mom. You’ve done that level. I want you to have someone who stays.”

She didn’t look up. Just stared at the embers, hoodie pulled over her hands.
“He didn’t see you. But I do. We do.”

Mira didn’t respond, but smiled to herself. Knowing her daughter had looked through her phone again. Always the protector. Afraid she’d miss out on her mom’s secrets. She just wrapped an arm around her daughter and breathed her in. That was the kind of mirror she needed now.

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That night the group met for dinner at a quiet coastal café tucked into the dunes. The place had string lights and wood tables etched with initials, and the food tasted like someone’s grandmother still worked in the kitchen.

Mira sat across from Halley, who wore oversized earrings and a smile that always looked like it was about to spill a secret. They shared plates, sipped wine, and listened to the overlapping conversations of their friends. But Mira was quieter than usual, swirling her glass more than drinking from it.

Halley tilted her head. “You’re somewhere else tonight.”

Mira gave her a half-smile. “Still unwinding the ache.”

Halley nodded, unfazed. “Of course you are. That one got under your skin. He had ‘potential,’ which is the most dangerous kind.”

Mira looked down at her plate, then back up. “It’s not even about him, not really. It’s about the part of me that still wants to believe. The part that keeps reaching even after the thread goes slack.”

Halley leaned in. “You’re not wrong for wanting more. Or for feeling disappointed when someone doesn’t meet you there. That’s not a failure, Mira. That’s clarity. Babe, he wasn’t a loss. He was just… underqualified.”

Mira blinked. The words struck something soft. “I think I’m just tired of hoping in silence.”

Halley reached out and laid her hand over Mira’s. “Then don’t be silent. Let it be a roar. Or a post. Or a poem. Just let it live somewhere other than inside you.”

Mira laughed, a real one, this time. “You always say exactly what I didn’t know I needed to hear.”

“That’s my job,” Halley said with a wink. “Official detector of the underqualified and espresso martini enthusiast.”

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They drove home in the golden haze of late afternoon. Mira felt different, still tender, but more whole. Like she’d pulled something important back into herself.

She journaled. She lit candles. She played music with lyrics that understood.

She went on long walks. She cleaned out her closet. She deleted the thread.

And then, one morning, she sat down and wrote this:

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Letters from The Clever Confidante: “The Art of the In-between”
The pause isn’t passive, it’s the space where becoming begins.

I thought I’d know who I was by now.

And while I know myself more deeply than ever, there are still pieces of me shifting, reshaping, becoming.

But maybe the most honest thing I can say is: I’m in the in-between.

Not lost. Not broken. Not spiraling. But not fully arrived either.

On the cusp, one foot across the threshold, but uncertain of where it’ll land.

That sense that something is coming with this new season, as one is ending.

I felt it on a quiet morning away on a recent trip, sitting on the beach with the wind in my hair and the salt air softening everything sharp. The waves rolled in and out, steady and indifferent, as my friends played in the surf, laughing and drifting. I stayed still.

For once, I didn’t reach. I didn’t orchestrate the moment. I didn’t fill the space with effort.

I just let it be.

And in that stillness, I realized something I hadn’t been ready to see before: the pause isn’t passive. It’s powerful. It’s where I learn to receive instead of chase. To trust what flows toward me instead of clinging to what I’ve always tried to hold together.

That morning, I didn’t need to do anything to be in the moment.

I just had to be there.

And when I stopped trying to manage the moment, connection happened, organically, gently, without force. I was able to fully receive it. Not because I reached for it, but because I made space for it to arrive.

I’m realizing this isn’t just about one beach morning or one trip. It’s showing up in how I connect with others too.

In this season, I’m learning to stay with the moment, even when it’s uncertain, even when I ache for answers. I’m learning to let people show me who they are without rushing to define what it means. To hold desire without grasping. To trust that if something is meant to deepen, it won’t need rescuing. It will rise.

This season feels like a hallway. A sacred, slightly echoey space between who I used to be and whoever I’m becoming next. It’s quiet here, but not empty. The silence is full of questions I haven’t answered yet, stories I’ve paused mid-chapter, and lessons that are still unfolding in real time.

After ending the Confessions of a Late Bloomer series, I expected a sense of closure. A little exhale. Instead, I felt a strange spaciousness. Like a stage reset between acts. Like something was quietly rearranging itself inside me.

I didn’t feel finished. I felt like I had arrived at the mouth of something bigger. Something more honest. Something that wouldn’t let itself be wrapped in a bow and declared “done.”

And that sense stayed with me. It followed me into the days after, into the way I moved through my work, my relationships, my inner dialogue. It made me hyper-aware of every moment I was tempted to rush, to fix, to define. Like everything I’ve been learning is settling in to stay, not demanding attention, but insisting on presence.

And I’ve learned not to rush that.

Because what if the in-between is the becoming? What if pause is not the absence of momentum, but the deep work of integration?

Like the butterfly who has become, but still hasn’t emerged from the cocoon.

I’ve been shedding outdated roles: the overfunctioner, the one who performs for love, the woman who stays quiet to keep the peace. I’ve been laying down my armor, the protection I no longer need. These roles once kept me safe, or at least, helped me belong. But they don’t fit anymore. And they never made me feel fully seen.

Now, I’m trading control for curiosity. Urgency for trust. Busyness for embodiment. The kind of strength I’m growing now doesn’t roar; it roots. It softens. It listens. It waits for resonance, not validation.

In their place, I feel a new kind of self taking shape: one who trusts her timing. Who embraces desire without apology. Who no longer waits to be chosen, but chooses herself every damn day. Who’s learning to receive, not rushing to fill the space. Who doesn’t chase every flicker of connection to prove her worth, but allows the real ones to unfold in their own time.

I don’t want to skip this part. I don’t want to rush into the next shiny thing just to feel in control. Even though it’s tempting to force clarity, to conjure a next step just to know where it’ll land. I want to honor this strange and sacred chrysalis space. The not-yet. The almost. The quiet before the clarity.

I don’t know what’s next, but I trust that it’s rooted in truth, softness, and a kind of joy that doesn’t ask me to shrink.

So if you’re here too – in the fog, in the floating, in the tender hush of almost-knowing – I see you.

You’re in progress. And you’re allowed to be a masterpiece and a work-in-progress at the exact same time.

Always,

Your Trusted Friend ♥ 

If you’re also living in the in-between, I’d love to hear what it’s teaching you.
(Leave it in the comments, or just whisper it to the version of you that’s still becoming. She’s listening.)

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