A Dance of Self-Discovery

How beautiful that we’re in a perpetual growth, evolution, and self-discovery state.

Over the last few weeks, I’ve had the delight of learning things about myself that now, in hindsight, seem glaringly obvious.

I am a creature of comfort.

Then again, aren’t we all?

Our comfort zones provide both safety and a sense of control.

But this isn’t where learning and growth happen.

They’re more like resting places than where we are meant to dwell.

I recently had a profound realization while dancing at an event where I felt completely at ease alone on the dance floor.

I moved with freedom, confidence, and without inhibition. However, the moment someone else entered my space, uncertainty crept in.

It struck me that this mirrored my struggles in interpersonal relationships – my difficulty in accommodating others while remaining authentic. I’ve grown accustomed to relying solely on myself.

Mistakenly, I thought I’d worked through finding comfort and identity in being solo and independent as a single parent.

Because the truth is, I’ve never been truly alone.

I’m surrounded by a network of loving family and friends who have always been there for me and my daughter. It took a shift in perspective for me to fully embrace and appreciate their support. Dancing was a microcosm of my ongoing journey toward accepting connections, fostering friendships, and embracing a broader sense of community.

While it’s tempting to remain isolated and self-reliant, I recognize the need to push past my fears and embrace the richness of human connection. It’s about finding a new sense of purpose and fulfillment within the embrace of community.

Always,

Your Trusted Friend