emotional regulation – The Clever Confidante

This is part of a three-year exploration of the Siren archetype that involves moving from survival to stillness, and finally, to sovereignty. As I re-read my thoughts from Power in Depth, I began to wonder about the mechanics of how we actually stay there safely. What happens when the “middle ground” stops feeling like a… Continue reading Part 2: The Physics of the Rise

Life, Love

Landmines

August 29, 2022April 30, 2023 The Clever Confidante

If you don't love yourself and feel wholly worthy as you are, this is the evidence. These are the landmines you're planting your relationships. The doubts, the questioning, the need for validation, and for someone else to be responsible for your emotional regulation. I know, because I used to plant them and then be surprised when they would erupt in my face.