I’m sitting in this space of discomfort. Those early, early moments of dating when you’ve met someone who piques your interest and there is this moment where you think… This could be something. I have not sat in this space for a very long time. It’s been three years since I dated anyone seriously. While… Continue reading My Crush
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The Places That Made Me and Unmade Me
Confessions of a Late Bloomer Part 6 Before I ever learned to shrink myself inside relationships,I learned to shrink myself inside a system that told me it was love. Before the heartbreaks with names and faces,there was a different kind of heartbreak.A quieter one.A belonging that asked me to be small. I started going to… Continue reading The Places That Made Me and Unmade Me
Unsure in Love
In relationships even the 'right' ones can hold a mystery. Sometimes, a relationship may tick all the boxes, but an unspoken unease lingers. In my own journey, I've learned the value of acknowledging those unspoken feelings. Discover why, even in the presence of a kind, compassionate partner, I often felt like I was walking on thin ice, afraid of causing unintended upheaval. Genuine relationships should be sanctuaries where we can be our authentic selves, free from constant filters. Learn why recognizing when a bond isn't mutually beneficial and bravely choosing to let go can lead to new possibilities for both partners. Explore the universal lesson that we deserve relationships where both say 'yes' not only in words but in spirit. It's a journey of self-discovery and mutual growth.
