Finding home in the space between the surface and the deep. The Siren has been an archetype that I've been dancing with for a while. More recently, I've been trying to embody her not as a myth of seduction, but as a master of the depths. She doesn't fear the deep water because she knows… Continue reading Power 1: Power in Depth
Author: The Clever Confidante
It isn’t Escalation. It’s Exposure
Yesterday, an ICE agent shot and killed a 37-year-old woman. And before anyone rushes to frame this as a shocking escalation, I want to say this plainly: This isn’t new violence.What’s new is the size of the audience. Black and brown communities have been living inside this reality for generations. They didn’t wake up yesterday… Continue reading It isn’t Escalation. It’s Exposure
One Big Purpose
How many of us spend our lives searching for our One Big Purpose? Probably most of us. We want to matter. We want to belong. We want to know that when we are gone, something of us remains. Someone once told me that people try to ensure this in one of two ways. They have… Continue reading One Big Purpose
January: Realignment
This year begins with Adjustment. Not a surprise, really. And when you think about it, a very literal card to open a year with. January so often lives in the space between endings and beginnings. A threshold month. A time of resolutions, intentions, and quiet hope. We stand facing forward while still carrying the weight of… Continue reading January: Realignment
Day 12/12
We’ve reached the final day of dreaming, a moment to reflect on the wishes you’ve released and the one you’ve chosen to keep. By now, you should have burned your 12th wish, sending it into the universe with faith and gratitude, trusting it is already yours. What remains is the thirteenth wish. This one stays… Continue reading Day 12/12
Day 11/12
Day eleven of the 12 Days of Dreaming. As we approach the end of this cycle of intentional dreaming, wish-making, and quiet devotion, I’m noticing a particular kind of tiredness. Not burnout. Not depletion. More like the feeling after a long hike or a creative stretch that asked something real of me. There’s hope here. And… Continue reading Day 11/12
Day 10/12
We are drawing near the end of the 12 Days of Dreaming. Today is Day Ten. The tenth day of Yule marks a pivotal moment across cultures: the rebirth of the sun after the longest night. A reminder that even in the deepest darkness, light does return. Not abruptly, not dramatically, but inevitably. Nature does… Continue reading Day 10/12
Day 9/12
And now we are on the ninth day of the 12 Days of Dreaming. Day nine belongs to Odin. Not only the god of war and death, but the god of wisdom, poetry, magic, and relentless seeking. Odin is not comfortable knowledge. He is earned knowledge. He gives up his eye to drink from the… Continue reading Day 9/12
Day 8/12
It is the eighth day of the 12 Days of Dreaming. In Norse traditions this day honors Skadi and Ullr, the gods of winter, skill, precision, and survival. Hunting was a vital necessity, providing food for the table, yet life was not solely about survival. The Norse made room for joy, storytelling, games, weaving, and… Continue reading Day 8/12
Day 7/12
It is day 7 of the 12 Days of Dreaming. Today arrives with steadiness. This day is traditionally associated with Thor. Not just Thor the god of thunder, but the guardian. The one who stands watch. The one who shows up again and again, not for glory, but because protection is a form of love.… Continue reading Day 7/12
