Tag: Love

Life, Love

Lessons from the Universe

The Clever Confidante

The universe often brings beautiful souls into our existence, only to seemingly take them away. These individuals, with whom we've shared dreams and hopes, may, in fact, be vital lessons we wouldn't learn otherwise. Like brilliant lights, they arrive to illuminate the hidden corners of our potential and worth. As painful as it may be, it's through the journey of loss and heartbreak that we're guided to the path meant just for us. The universe's wisdom lies in these experiences, shaping us, refining our understanding of ourselves, and ultimately leading us to our true destinies. Join me on this profound exploration of growth through loss.

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favorite book

The Clever Confidante

By Whitney Hanson i finally found a book that i couldn't put down but this time this book was a person and i wanted you to know that i've only started chapter one but i already know that i would read this book again and again and again and i might even bend the pages… Continue reading favorite book

Love

Unsure in Love

The Clever Confidante

In relationships even the 'right' ones can hold a mystery. Sometimes, a relationship may tick all the boxes, but an unspoken unease lingers. In my own journey, I've learned the value of acknowledging those unspoken feelings. Discover why, even in the presence of a kind, compassionate partner, I often felt like I was walking on thin ice, afraid of causing unintended upheaval. Genuine relationships should be sanctuaries where we can be our authentic selves, free from constant filters. Learn why recognizing when a bond isn't mutually beneficial and bravely choosing to let go can lead to new possibilities for both partners. Explore the universal lesson that we deserve relationships where both say 'yes' not only in words but in spirit. It's a journey of self-discovery and mutual growth.

Life

Navigating the Storms

The Clever Confidante

Emotions, like unpredictable waves, can engulf us, elevating us to highs of joy or dragging us into depths of despair. As we journey through these emotional seas, we discover our resilience and the profound role of being a guiding light for others. Explore the ebb and flow of our inner emotional landscapes.

Love

Braving Vulnerability

The Clever Confidante

There's a temptation within me, perhaps from past traumas, to adopt a facade of indifference. The ghosts of the past whisper to me that I am hard to love, that I am both too much and never enough. So when my heart starts to feel the stirrings of love and affection, there's an urge to… Continue reading Braving Vulnerability

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When You Least Expect It

The Clever Confidante

I couldn't help but think of the aphorism; "You'll find love when you least expect it" as I was writing The Power of Being Yourself. Why? Because it suggests that love often comes into our lives when we are not actively seeking or searching for it. It implies that love has a way of finding… Continue reading When You Least Expect It

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The Stages of Love

The Clever Confidante

Love, just like our own growth, evolves and matures over time. There is the honeymoon stage. This is the stage where everything seems perfect, carefree, and fun. You're infatuated and smitten, and everything seems and feels perfect. When many people think about 'falling in love', this is the stage that they are thinking about. When… Continue reading The Stages of Love

Happiness

Love Cannot Rescue

The Clever Confidante

If we are looking to other people, places, things, or experiences to bring us happiness, peace, joy, and love we will always end up disappointed and let down. While all of these things, particularly our relationships with others, have great potential to enrich our lives in numerous ways, none of these things can ultimately offer… Continue reading Love Cannot Rescue

Happiness, Life, Love

Breathe and Decide

The Clever Confidante

There are some words that just capture the things that matter so well. Like many things, media is a powerful tool that has the ability to give us a lens into ourselves… but it can also be used to manipulate and separate. It's easy for me to focus on the things that I hate about… Continue reading Breathe and Decide