Life, Love

Rooted in Love, Even When It Hurts

Last night was a hard one. One of those moments in parenting, especially solo parenting, that leaves you raw and questioning. Am I doing the right thing? Am I too hard? Too soft? Is she pulling away because I’m showing her the boundaries she needs, or because I’m getting it all wrong? I sat with… Continue reading Rooted in Love, Even When It Hurts

Life

There Is No Them

There is no such thing as them. You wouldn’t know it, though. We’ve been bombarded by people being stuffed into that role. If there is a them, then there is an us we can safely belong to. Secure in the group, with an enemy out there in the Themness. It’s a trick, an old one.… Continue reading There Is No Them

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Thank You, Fear

We can actually be grateful for fear. Fear is an ancient survival tool, hardwired into us to keep us safe. It’s been looking out for us since the days of early humans when sticking with the group wasn’t just a preference—it was the difference between life and, well… being some predator’s lunch. Fear is a… Continue reading Thank You, Fear

12 Days of Dreaming, Life

February: To Walk Without Fear

Photo by Leio McLaren on Unsplash As we step into February, my card for the energy of the month is The Fool. In tarot, The Fool is the very first card—a symbol of new beginnings, fresh starts, and limitless potential. Often seen as the main character of the tarot deck, The Fool embarks on an… Continue reading February: To Walk Without Fear

Life

The Hermit Year

As we step into the Hermit Year, also known as the 9th year in numerology, it’s a time for profound self-reflection, personal growth, and inner exploration. This year carries the energy of solitude and introspection, encouraging us to step back, reevaluate, and seek deeper understanding. The number nine signifies completion, wisdom, and integration, making this… Continue reading The Hermit Year

12 Days of Dreaming, Life

January: Spiritual Revolutionary

Photo by Nik Shuliahin 💛💙 on Unsplash January is often a time to set off full of enthusiasm and gusto, embracing new goals or intentions. It’s a season of excitement, motivation, and fresh starts. The Knight of Wands perfectly embodies this energy—charging forward with passion, eager to shift perspectives and spark transformation. This card represents the ability to turn challenges… Continue reading January: Spiritual Revolutionary

12 Days of Dreaming, Life

December: Shadow Awareness

December embodies the energy of the Seven of Swords—a time to face our inner saboteur, to reflect on the stories we tell ourselves, and to overcome the mental patterns that hold us back. At first glance, the Seven of Swords may seem like a card of trickery or deceit, but its deeper wisdom lies in its ability… Continue reading December: Shadow Awareness

Life

When Bullies Become Heroes

Some people were born to be bullies. Maybe life did them wrong in some way, leaving scars they now wear like armor—a prickly shield that lets them carve out a place of their own by keeping everyone else at a distance. It’s their way of asserting themselves, of creating a sense of safety by pushing… Continue reading When Bullies Become Heroes

12 Days of Dreaming, Life

November: Profound Transformation

November embodies the energy of death—a time of endings, transformation, and release. While the Death tarot card can be intimidating, I find it inspiring and hopeful. For where the universe takes away, it creates space for new growth. The Death tarot card, far from being foreboding, is symbolic of renewal. Often metaphorical in nature, it… Continue reading November: Profound Transformation