validation – The Clever Confidante

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oygrmJFKYZY If someone doesn't know that they want you, walk away. The empowering anthem "Don't Start Now" by Dua Lipa resonates deeply with those who have mustered the strength to walk away from toxic relationships. The lyrics capture the essence of newfound freedom and resilience after leaving behind a destructive relationship. As we strive towards… Continue reading Don’t Start Now: Walking Away From Toxicity

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Landmines

August 29, 2022April 30, 2023 The Clever Confidante

If you don't love yourself and feel wholly worthy as you are, this is the evidence. These are the landmines you're planting your relationships. The doubts, the questioning, the need for validation, and for someone else to be responsible for your emotional regulation. I know, because I used to plant them and then be surprised when they would erupt in my face.