Category: Love
If you wish to earn her,
You must meet her.
Find her soul and capture her there.
When you’re able to truly tap into your own desires, wants, and power it can initially feel uncomfortable, selfish, and can be laden in guilt. At least, this is how it is feeling for me. So many of my patterns involve me considering and… Continue Reading “Pattern Breaking”
Category: Happiness, Life, LoveTags: appease, Authentic, codependency, empower, Empowered, fawn, finding my power, finding my voice, freeze flight flight fawn, Life, Love, patternbreaking, patterns, please, pleasing, trauma response
Ignoring a broken bone doesn’t fix it.
If left untreated the problem only gets worse and leads to complications and more pain and suffering.
The same is true of our internal injuries.
Tend them as tenderly, if not more so, than a broken bone.
Perhaps, like a broken bone, if given this intentional space the heart can heal just as strong – if not more so – as before the breaking?
Category: Happiness, Life, LoveTags: accidental heart break, Broken, broken bone, broken heart, empower, Empowered, empowering, healing, how we heal, injury, Love, love hurts, neglect, the clever confidante
I have placed my self worth, like a gift, into the hands of others assuming that if someone else found me desirable, lovable, admirable, and attractive then that must be true.
Category: Happiness, Life, LoveTags: alignment, empower, Empowered, empowering, growth, integrity, self care, self love, self worth, the clever confidante, truth, wellness, worth, worthiness, worthy
Stop settling, friend. Stop settling for almost, just about, close enough, and what ifs. Stop shoving your dreams, wishes, desires, and needs aside for something that leaves you yearning and desiring more. For something that doesn’t quite scratch the itch because you’re afraid that… Continue Reading “Almost and Just About”
Category: Happiness, Life, LoveTags: close enough, empower, Empowered, empowering, expansion, free, freedome, growth, Life, Love, relationships, settle, Settling, wait, wait for it
We all crave intimacy, and yet it’s the scariest thing in the world to receive for it requires vulnerability. Vulnerability — my friend — demands that we give up control. It means that we allow ourselves the space to be raw and open.
Category: LoveTags: control, controlling, empower, Empowered, empowering, growth, Love, peace, release, release control, vulnerability, worthy
We are groomed to accept toxic love. Perhaps this started with the story of Romeo and Juliet, star-crossed lovers who were doomed to death at the onset? For whatever reason, the stories we tell and are attracted to affirm these types of love stories.… Continue Reading “Toxic Love”
Category: LoveTags: angst, calm, change the narrative, empower, Empowered, empowering, Love, love stories, misery, peace, toxic, toxic love, toxic relationships
Life changes. Sometimes you rail against these changes, denying them and fighting them. Trying to bargain and trade to get back whatever it is you’ve lost. I have found myself in this space. Begging for second chances, swearing I’ll change myself to fit a… Continue Reading “The Space Left Behind”
Category: Happiness, Life, LoveTags: acceptance, Authentic, bargaining, bloom, Change, denial, Genuine, growth, Life, Love, second chances, the clever confidante
Peace comes when my mind, body, heart, and willpower are all in alignment – whole and undivided.
Only when this happens will I act from a place of sovereign discernment, clarity, and connection to my innermost self. This is what it means for me to flow with integrity.
Category: Happiness, Life, LoveTags: calm, control, controlling, controlling outcomes, empower, Empowered, empowering, flow, flow with integrity, inner knowing, integrity, lessons, letting go, peace, release control, release expectations, shed, the clever confidante, wait for peace
What struck me today was the importance of radical acceptance, of the ability of accurately seeing whatever lurks before and within me, and accepting it for what it is. Not dressing it up in niceties or false hope; but holding it in my arms, feeling it in my body, moving through it, and letting it go.
Category: Happiness, Life, LoveTags: acceptance, empower, Empowered, empowering, false hope, heart break, letting go, Love, optimism, radical acceptance, reality, release, truth, truth bomb