When you’re able to truly tap into your own desires, wants, and power it can initially feel uncomfortable, selfish, and can be laden in guilt. At least, this is how it is feeling for me. So many of my patterns involve me considering and… Continue Reading “Pattern Breaking”
Category: Happiness, Life, LoveTags: appease, Authentic, codependency, empower, Empowered, fawn, finding my power, finding my voice, freeze flight flight fawn, Life, Love, patternbreaking, patterns, please, pleasing, trauma response
Life changes. Sometimes you rail against these changes, denying them and fighting them. Trying to bargain and trade to get back whatever it is you’ve lost. I have found myself in this space. Begging for second chances, swearing I’ll change myself to fit a… Continue Reading “The Space Left Behind”
Category: Happiness, Life, LoveTags: acceptance, Authentic, bargaining, bloom, Change, denial, Genuine, growth, Life, Love, second chances, the clever confidante
True meaningful connection, I believe – friend – can only happen when people are able to show up as authentic versions of themselves, ready to let go of any sort of need of other to fulfill or satisfy any inner shortcoming or longing.
Category: Happiness, LoveTags: a lesson, Authentic, authenticity, Connection, empower, Empowered, empowering, Empty Promises, Flawed, holding space, Human Connection, lessons, Life, life lessons, Love, patterns, the clever confidante
No one can show up 100% of the time, there is no such thing as perfection, or of even being the best version of yourself all of the time. To have this expectation placed upon you either externally or internally doesn’t show respect for the fact that there are ebbs and flows. If the moon can be allowed to wane and wax, be full or new, so can I.
Category: Happiness, LifeTags: Authentic, authenticity, empower, Empowered, empowering, empowering women, expectations, Society, Standards, Told, Too Much, Women