Tag: Authentic

When You Least Expect It

I couldn’t help but think of the aphorism; “You’ll find love when you least expect it” as I was writing The Power of Being Yourself. Why? Because it suggests that love often comes into our lives when we are not actively seeking or searching… Continue Reading “When You Least Expect It”

The Power of Being Yourself

Today, I want to delve into an idea that has been on my mind lately – the power of authenticity in relationships. It’s an interesting paradox: when we’re not actively seeking a romantic connection or striving to win someone over, we often find ourselves… Continue Reading “The Power of Being Yourself”

Pattern Breaking

When you’re able to truly tap into your own desires, wants, and power it can initially feel uncomfortable, selfish, and can be laden in guilt. At least, this is how it is feeling for me. So many of my patterns involve me considering and… Continue Reading “Pattern Breaking”

The Space Left Behind

Life changes. Sometimes you rail against these changes, denying them and fighting them. Trying to bargain and trade to get back whatever it is you’ve lost. I have found myself in this space. Begging for second chances, swearing I’ll change myself to fit a… Continue Reading “The Space Left Behind”

The Lesson

True meaningful connection, I believe – friend – can only happen when people are able to show up as authentic versions of themselves, ready to let go of any sort of need of other to fulfill or satisfy any inner shortcoming or longing.

She Was

No one can show up 100% of the time, there is no such thing as perfection, or of even being the best version of yourself all of the time. To have this expectation placed upon you either externally or internally doesn’t show respect for the fact that there are ebbs and flows. If the moon can be allowed to wane and wax, be full or new, so can I.