Maybe the universe weaves certain people into our lives with intention, only to guide them away when their role in our story is complete. Perhaps it brings people into our lives for reasons we can't always understand, leaving lessons hidden in the spaces they leave behind - lessons that cannot be learned through beauty alone.… Continue reading Trust the Unfolding
There are moments in life when you encounter an experience so profound, it alters you at your core. For me, this was my recent Breathwave session at an event called Good Medicine, facilitated by Patrick and his incredible team. In that sacred, welcoming space, I connected with myself in a way I had never thought… Continue reading Finding Wholeness in Breath
There is danger in living a life imitating others, or even in having envy over what other people are doing. When we live our lives based upon following a path others have forged, we risk living a life that isn't fulfilling and doesn't feel as if it belongs to us. The result of imitating others… Continue reading Stop Imitating: Discover Your True Self
Lately, my dating experience has been frustrating—some connections have come close to working out, some were completely wrong, and others ended before they even had a chance to develop. To be honest, I've been hesitant to even step back into the dating world. My last serious relationship was emotionally draining, leaving me fiercely protective of… Continue reading Navigating Modern Dating: Lessons Learned
There’s a strange, almost sacred, space we find ourselves in when one chapter of life closes but the next one hasn’t yet fully emerged. If I had to describe it, it feels like standing at the edge of something vast and unknown—a little intimidating, a little exhilarating, and full of possibility. It’s not a feeling… Continue reading At the Crossroads: Trusting the Unknown
There’s something magical about those dates where everything feels just right—effortless conversation, natural chemistry, and a shared sense of excitement for what might come next. I recently had one of those dates. He was handsome, intelligent, and we clicked instantly. We talked for hours, discussing everything from our favorite books to potential future plans. There… Continue reading When Chemistry Isn’t Enough in Dating
Recently, I went on a date that didn’t quite spark. We gathered to enjoy live music, a backdrop of vibrant energy and rhythm. It was probably one of the most beautiful dates I've ever been on. The audience sat amidst the blooming flowers on a flower farm, the folk singer and her guitar on the… Continue reading Dating Disappointments: Embracing Rejection
Isn't it curious how we're drawn to like-minded souls, even as adults? We're still navigating high school cliques, seeking familiarity and connection. At work, for instance, we naturally gravitate toward colleagues who share our humor, our rhythm, or even our taste in coffee. It feels easy and safe, like that coworker who gets us. A… Continue reading The Beauty of Diversity: Expanding Perspectives and Belonging | The Clever Confidante
A recent realization struck me: the version myself that emerges can vary significantly depending on the company I keep. As I reflected on this insight, I recognized the importance of seeking relationships where I genuinely like the version of myself that appears when I am with them. This understanding highlights just how crucial it is… Continue reading Choose Connections Where You Like the Version of Yourself
Sometimes, we can hesitate to embrace the feeling of joy. It's common to pause joy, fearing its temporary nature, that there isn't time or space for it, or feeling unworthy of it altogether. Joy can be a daunting emotion. When we allow ourselves to revel and luxuriate in it, we're reminded of its impermanence. This… Continue reading The Complexity of Joy
