There’s something magical about those dates where everything feels just right—effortless conversation, natural chemistry, and a shared sense of excitement for what might come next. I recently had one of those dates. He was handsome, intelligent, and we clicked instantly. We talked for hours, discussing everything from our favorite books to potential future plans. There… Continue reading When Chemistry Isn’t Enough in Dating
Recently, I went on a date that didn’t quite spark. We gathered to enjoy live music, a backdrop of vibrant energy and rhythm. It was probably one of the most beautiful dates I've ever been on. The audience sat amidst the blooming flowers on a flower farm, the folk singer and her guitar on the… Continue reading Dating Disappointments: Embracing Rejection
There is nothing more risky than pretending not to care. I gravitate towards this pretense of not caring. I struggle with vulnerability, often tempted to conceal my true feelings and emotions. I am tempted to convince myself that being impassive is to be strong. To be impassive is to be safe. Though I crave connection,… Continue reading Daring to Care
Dating can create power struggles, and the so-called experts who give advice make this landscape even more confusing. You're supposed to be mysterious but not too mysterious. Show interest without seeming desperate. Be available without appearing needy. Be confident without being arrogant. And on and on it goes. Don't show your hand too soon, talk… Continue reading Power Struggles in Dating
We encounter a multitude of individuals on our life's journey, and it seems that each person carries a unique purpose. Most, if not all, of the people we meet are destined to teach us valuable lessons. Lessons that, once learned, pave the way for growth and progression. Friends, mentors, lovers – they all come into… Continue reading Recognizing Relationship Lessons
Unexpected encounters often serve as our greatest teachers, offering lessons that shape our understanding of self and others. Recently, a reconnection with a man from my past has left me contemplating the subtle nuances of communication, timing, self-awareness, and compatibility. As a dear friend wisely put it, every encounter is medicinal, and I find myself… Continue reading The Medicine of Unexpected Encounters
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oygrmJFKYZY If someone doesn't know that they want you, walk away. The empowering anthem "Don't Start Now" by Dua Lipa resonates deeply with those who have mustered the strength to walk away from toxic relationships. The lyrics capture the essence of newfound freedom and resilience after leaving behind a destructive relationship. As we strive towards… Continue reading Don’t Start Now: Walking Away From Toxicity
The universe often brings beautiful souls into our existence, only to seemingly take them away. These individuals, with whom we've shared dreams and hopes, may, in fact, be vital lessons we wouldn't learn otherwise. Like brilliant lights, they arrive to illuminate the hidden corners of our potential and worth. As painful as it may be, it's through the journey of loss and heartbreak that we're guided to the path meant just for us. The universe's wisdom lies in these experiences, shaping us, refining our understanding of ourselves, and ultimately leading us to our true destinies. Join me on this profound exploration of growth through loss.
By Whitney Hanson i finally found a book that i couldn't put down but this time this book was a person and i wanted you to know that i've only started chapter one but i already know that i would read this book again and again and again and i might even bend the pages… Continue reading favorite book
In relationships even the 'right' ones can hold a mystery. Sometimes, a relationship may tick all the boxes, but an unspoken unease lingers. In my own journey, I've learned the value of acknowledging those unspoken feelings. Discover why, even in the presence of a kind, compassionate partner, I often felt like I was walking on thin ice, afraid of causing unintended upheaval. Genuine relationships should be sanctuaries where we can be our authentic selves, free from constant filters. Learn why recognizing when a bond isn't mutually beneficial and bravely choosing to let go can lead to new possibilities for both partners. Explore the universal lesson that we deserve relationships where both say 'yes' not only in words but in spirit. It's a journey of self-discovery and mutual growth.
