A recent realization struck me: the version myself that emerges can vary significantly depending on the company I keep. As I reflected on this insight, I recognized the importance of seeking relationships where I genuinely like the version of myself that appears when I am with them. This understanding highlights just how crucial it is… Continue reading Choose Connections Where You Like the Version of Yourself
Unexpected encounters often serve as our greatest teachers, offering lessons that shape our understanding of self and others. Recently, a reconnection with a man from my past has left me contemplating the subtle nuances of communication, timing, self-awareness, and compatibility. As a dear friend wisely put it, every encounter is medicinal, and I find myself… Continue reading The Medicine of Unexpected Encounters
In relationships even the 'right' ones can hold a mystery. Sometimes, a relationship may tick all the boxes, but an unspoken unease lingers. In my own journey, I've learned the value of acknowledging those unspoken feelings. Discover why, even in the presence of a kind, compassionate partner, I often felt like I was walking on thin ice, afraid of causing unintended upheaval. Genuine relationships should be sanctuaries where we can be our authentic selves, free from constant filters. Learn why recognizing when a bond isn't mutually beneficial and bravely choosing to let go can lead to new possibilities for both partners. Explore the universal lesson that we deserve relationships where both say 'yes' not only in words but in spirit. It's a journey of self-discovery and mutual growth.
There's a dangerous allure in looking over our neighbor's fence, wondering if the grass is truly greener on their side. I've often found myself doing just that, comparing my milestones and setbacks to others and feeling disheartened when I perceive myself lagging behind. Have you ever felt that tug? That silent nudge urging you to… Continue reading Beyond Envy & Imitation
Oftentimes, our growth, rebirth, and renewal require us to leave behind what is known and comfortable to us in order to step into our own becoming. This venture towards the edge of our comfort, where we face our fears, is where true transformation begins. While fear is a natural response to the unfamiliar, it's within… Continue reading Outside of the Known, Into the Fear
Today, I want to delve into an idea that has been on my mind lately - the power of authenticity in relationships. It's an interesting paradox: when we're not actively seeking a romantic connection or striving to win someone over, we often find ourselves attracting people to us effortlessly. But the moment we start looking,… Continue reading The Power of Being Yourself
True meaningful connection, I believe - friend - can only happen when people are able to show up as authentic versions of themselves, ready to let go of any sort of need of other to fulfill or satisfy any inner shortcoming or longing.
No one can show up 100% of the time, there is no such thing as perfection, or of even being the best version of yourself all of the time. To have this expectation placed upon you either externally or internally doesn't show respect for the fact that there are ebbs and flows. If the moon can be allowed to wane and wax, be full or new, so can I.
