Confessions of a Late Bloomer

Learning to Let Go

Confessions of a Late Bloomer Part 10 I used to think life would unfold the way I planned it. If I showed up, worked hard, loved deeply, and kept trying, things would fall into place on my timeline. But life doesn’t care much for timetables. Or five-year plans. Or tidy endings tied up with a… Continue reading Learning to Let Go

Life

Trust the Unfolding

Maybe the universe weaves certain people into our lives with intention, only to guide them away when their role in our story is complete. Perhaps it brings people into our lives for reasons we can't always understand, leaving lessons hidden in the spaces they leave behind - lessons that cannot be learned through beauty alone.… Continue reading Trust the Unfolding

Love

Recognizing Relationship Lessons

We encounter a multitude of individuals on our life's journey, and it seems that each person carries a unique purpose. Most, if not all, of the people we meet are destined to teach us valuable lessons. Lessons that, once learned, pave the way for growth and progression. Friends, mentors, lovers – they all come into… Continue reading Recognizing Relationship Lessons

Life, Love

The Medicine of Unexpected Encounters

Unexpected encounters often serve as our greatest teachers, offering lessons that shape our understanding of self and others. Recently, a reconnection with a man from my past has left me contemplating the subtle nuances of communication, timing, self-awareness, and compatibility. As a dear friend wisely put it, every encounter is medicinal, and I find myself… Continue reading The Medicine of Unexpected Encounters

Life, Love

Lessons from the Universe

The universe often brings beautiful souls into our existence, only to seemingly take them away. These individuals, with whom we've shared dreams and hopes, may, in fact, be vital lessons we wouldn't learn otherwise. Like brilliant lights, they arrive to illuminate the hidden corners of our potential and worth. As painful as it may be, it's through the journey of loss and heartbreak that we're guided to the path meant just for us. The universe's wisdom lies in these experiences, shaping us, refining our understanding of ourselves, and ultimately leading us to our true destinies. Join me on this profound exploration of growth through loss.

Happiness, Life

From Heartbreak to Self-Growth

Embark on a reflective journey about the transformative power of self-acceptance. Dive into the intricacies of personal growth, the impact of choices, and the invaluable lessons learned from life's adversities. Discover the strength that emerges from recognizing and embracing one's true self.

Happiness, Life

Life’s Transformative Lessons

As we journey through life, we accumulate wisdom and experiences that shape our perspectives and guide our paths. On the occasion of my 45th birthday, I find myself reflecting upon the invaluable lessons I've learned along the way. Here are ten transformative lessons that have enriched my life and may inspire yours. Choose people and… Continue reading Life’s Transformative Lessons

Happiness, Life, Love

It’s Not Fine, But It’ll Be Okay

It's not fine, but it'll be okay. There was something so reassuring and affirming about hearing those words. Countless times throughout the day we are asked how we are and many of us respond automatically with those simple two words, "I'm fine." Or, how many times have we been treated in ways that are the… Continue reading It’s Not Fine, But It’ll Be Okay

Happiness, Life

The Climb

Life is full of ups and downs and all the moments in between. We know this, friend. We've reveled in its peaks, suffered in it's lows, and rested in its valleys. Life is a perpetual climb, one in which we're always striving for a destination that we will never reach. We're meant to continually be… Continue reading The Climb

Happiness, Love

The Lesson

True meaningful connection, I believe - friend - can only happen when people are able to show up as authentic versions of themselves, ready to let go of any sort of need of other to fulfill or satisfy any inner shortcoming or longing.